FILM REVIEW: Holding the Man

Holding the Man (Neil Armfield, 2015)

It’s a difficult task to make a film that while tragic, is full of so many moments of beauty and joy. But that’s exactly what Neil Armfield has done in Holding the Man. Based on Timothy Conigrave’s memoir of the same name (which later became a critically acclaimed and much loved play), the film details the fifteen year relationship between Tim (Ryan Corr) and his partner John Caleo (Craig Stott), from their initial attraction in high school, through their university years, and their battle with the AIDS virus.

Ryan Corr & Craig Stott
Ryan Corr & Craig Stott

Armfield captures the joyful revelry of youth against a Melbourne backdrop in the late seventies to early eighties, with early scenes mirroring television’s Puberty Blues. Tim and John’s awkward teenage romance is infused with humour, excitement, secrecy, and a sense of complete infatuation. University life brings with it added sexual liberation, and infatuation turns to full-throttled lust, testing the limits of their relationship. In the mid-eighties, tragedy strikes, and yet every moment is still tinged with a raw beauty.

Craig Stott, Sarah Snook, & Ryan Corr
Craig Stott, Sarah Snook, & Ryan Corr

The soundtrack bolsters the seventies/eighties vibe with hits of the time, enhancing the mood in an often sad story. Tommy Murphy’s screenplay (which I’m sure features many of Tim’s own words) is consistently funny, especially in the teenage years, but also through the tough times. And while the film depicts multiple instances of discrimination, it isn’t defined by these, with many characters accepting that love is love so who cares. A word of warning for the later stages of this film: you should probably bring about seven boxes of tissues with you. I doubt there was a dry eye in the house.
clairestbearestreviews_filmreview_holdingtheman_kissRyan Corr and Craig Stott are extraordinary. Without a doubt they deliver their best performances yet, moving the absolute bejesus out of their audience with their incredible chemistry. The mind boggles at the talent on display here. This extends to the supporting cast, which features Guy Pearce and Kerry Fox as Tim’s parents, Anthony LaPaglia as John’s father, Sarah Snook as Tim’s friend  Pepe, and Geoffrey Rush as Tim’s drama teacher. LaPaglia in particular is devastating.

Kerry Fox & Guy Pearce
Kerry Fox & Guy Pearce

At the Q&A I attended after the film, a question was raised about how to market this film – be open about its gay story, or hide it to get more audiences in? It has, quite sensibly, opted for middle ground, though it seems unlikely that certain audiences will watch (*cough* Tony Abbott *cough*). It is timely that is has been released when the marriage equality debate is gathering full steam, and the film’s themes are likely to resonate strongly with many viewers. The key message of the film is that love is love, and some bigots could certainly learn a lot from it, but we probably shouldn’t hold our breaths. #bringonthenextelection

Get used to it, love.
Get used to it, love.

Neil Armfield’s 2006 film Candy, starring Heath Ledger and Abbie Cornish as two drug addicts, similarly told a tragic love story. But while that was downright depressing, there’s no denying how profoundly beautiful his latest work is, both visually and thematically. Holding the Man may just be the most beautiful film to have ever come out of this country, and it is most certainly the best film of the year.

5 stars

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